Tag: housework
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Struggling
I’m sad because of stuff. Anniversaries and conflict and isolation and shit. But I got a stain off the rug. Yay?
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I DID A THING
come out god, fight me, you coward (wait a sec nevermind I saw a bird)
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MILD TO MODERATE BLEH
I’ve been noticing a few things. A pattern, I guess. Behaviour. I’ve been taking baby steps towards being OK. The moment they make a tiny difference, I notice my husband’s anger. Sometimes towards me, and sometimes directed at our son. And I’m sure I’m “causing” some of it by trying to set small boundaries. By…
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NOPE
Well, this isn’t what I wanted. I’m grumpy and I don’t really want to go on about it, but it’s still related to unequal workload at home. And mental health challenges for both parents. And general frustration. I felt my frustration. It’s there for a reason. But on with what was GOOD today: I also…
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GO PLAY OUTSIDE, DAMMIT
Look, I was feeling really good. REALLY good. The weather is gorgeous, I had a good swim, I was getting stuff done. And then I ran into the unequal workload in our house. Again. And I got angry. But that’s going to keep happening. My husband has no energy, and he can’t feel his feelings.…